When we are stricken

When we are stricken and cannot bear our lives any longer, then a tree has something to say to us:
Be still! Be still! Look at me! Life is not easy, life is not difficult. Those are childish thoughts. Let God speak within you, and your thoughts will grow silent. You are anxious because your path leads away from mother and home. But every step and every day lead you back again to the mother. Home is neither here nor there. Home is within you, or home is nowhere at all. Hermann Hesse, in his book 'Bäume. Betrachtungen und Gedichte'

PHOTO: This photo presents a unique perspective, looking up one of the magnificent, ancient trees in Joyce Kilmer Memorial Forest. Photo by Bill Lea, courtesy of National Scenic Byways Online (www.byways.org)

Fibromyalgia and stress

The causes of fibromyalgia are unknown, but many sufferers can trace its onset to a significant increase in stress in their life.

DO YOU KNOW THIS FEELING OF STRESS?

Stress has both a mental and physical response in the body. The stress may be physical trauma to the body like a car accident, an illness or infection or surgery or emotional stress.

Stress can be anything extra in our life - even a good thing - like a birthday, moving to a new home or a wedding.

Fibromyalgia often occurs together with other conditions including hypothyroidism, endometriosis, irritable bowel syndrome and Lyme disease. Obviously, any chronic illness causes stress to the body.

Stress is thought to play a significant role in the development of Fibromyalgia. Apparently, there is a high connection (approximately 42%) between the development of Fibro and Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

Stress is often described as a feeling of being overwhelmed, worried or run-down.  By definition, stress is any uncomfortable “emotional experience accompanied by predictable biochemical, physiological and behavioral changes.” mental, emotional, or physical strain or tension.

Is it Fibromyalgia or is it Stress?

When I looked at a list of how to identify stress it was like reading a list of Fibromyalgia symptoms.

• Psychological Signs
• Inability to concentrate or make simple decisions
• Memory lapses
• Easily distracted
• Less intuitive & creative
• Negative thinking
• Depression
• Anxiety
• Prone to accidents
• Insomnia
• Waking unrefreshed

This really got me thinking. We live with so much stress when we have fibromyalgia or any chronic illness. It's sometimes hard to identify what is stress and what is fibromyalgia, especially when looking at the list above.

The strange thing is that Fibromyalgia impacts a person's mental and physical health, but it is unclear what exactly defines stress and whether or not stress is a cause, an effect, or the process connecting the two. Whatever is true we need some ways to reduce all this stress.

4 simple suggestions to reduce stress

Remember this simple acronym... Remember your SELF:

Sleep, Exercise, Leisure (something fun), and Food. 

I found this little suggestion at The Story on Stress

1. Sleep - Your Brain Needs Zzzzzs

Your body and your brain need sleep. Though no one is exactly sure what work the brain does when you're sleeping, some scientists think that the brain sorts through and stores information, replaces chemicals and solves problems while you snooze. Many people with fibromyalgia have sleep issues and need extra support in resolving these. 

2. Exercise Feels Good

Exercising can also put you in a better mood. When you exercise, your brain releases chemicals that make you feel happier. It's just another reason why exercise is a good idea! Exercise causes a bit of a conundrum in many people with fibro as we need to find our comfort zone between too much exercise, which can cause a flare of symptoms and not enough exercise. 

3. Leisure

Anything that you do for fun is leisure. It could be watching a TV show or walking to the park or even going for a drive in the countryside. Any hobbies you have or things you enjoy are called leisure activities and should help us unwind from the stresses of everyday life. They are also great distractions that can take our mind off our worries, pain or other symptoms. 

4. Food

Eating more fruits and vegetables will help you eat fewer calories overall, which helps you keep a healthy weight. Eating fruits and veggies also gives you lots of vitamins and minerals.

These suggestions may seem simplistic, especially when you have so many complex symptoms but any healthy changes we make can have a huge impact on our quality of life. That's what we want when living with fibro... an improvement in the quality of our life.

What do you think about stress and fibromyalgia? Do you think about the stressors in your life or ways to reduce them? Do you think stress may be the cause of your fibro symptoms? Can you trace the cause of your fibromyalgia back to more stress in your life at a certain time?

SOURCES:  KidsHealth  Seeking Alpha ISMA UK